Change or Where Do I Belong (draft)

My "Mentor" B always says "Either your part of the problem or part of the solution" So, in the last few days i've been pondering which Am I? I often talk with my close freinds about the issues that face SGL men & women but is talk enough? I complain about the lack of "masculine" brothas working "on the issues" and the lack of "masculine" brothas working for "gay" rights, but is complaining enough? Well, I've been flirting with the idea of joining one of the Committees for this year's Windy City Pride AKA Black Pride- (on one hand I'm laughing my ass off because I remember a few years ago saying that I was comfortable with myself but not the leader of the Gay Pride parade obviously this is changing)